well with regards to change n all that, it happens, sure. and of course, we meet new people, shit happens between friends, but at the end of the day, who are the people we can turn to? what is it that we value on THAT PARTICULAR DAY? it changes over the months, over the years, sometimes even over the weeks, but vusan, i suppose you just gotta take things day by day.

in my opinion, so what if things change? all the better. gives life an amazing amount of variety, always something interesting to do, to think about. you can't be prepared for change, because you don't know what it is that's gonna change. my guess is that it all depends on the attitude you have while you face these changes, while you face these haywire situations. if you despair about change, if you see it as preventing you from grabbing a secure footing, then you'll just find cause for driving yourself towards depression, because that feeling of lacking control over your life is the worst feeling in the world. falling into chaos, so to speak, and you can't do anything about it.

we're all here. and we all need to survive. using that floating metaphor of yours pa, yes we are all just floating on waves that roll over and over again, each wave different every time, and maybe a tidal wave will come and hit us once in a while, even a tsunami. but what are you gonna do but float? tread and keep afloat? take it one kick at a time, one breath at a time, and be happy that your head is still out of the water.

things change, shit happens, but there is no way to happiness. happiness is the way. corny quote from souza, but i find it works to keep me sane. so many things happen, situations change in an instant, but you gotta embrace it all and just deal with it, grow with it.

and that is all i can say without reiterating.

  posted by MsKarenAu @ 11:45 PM